Baby Man

I am a man and I fully admit that when I get sick I turn into a baby. I’ve been feeling sick for a couple of days but last night it hit me full blast. After a day of work i came home with a fever. My body ached, my head and throat hurt, I had “fever eyes” but at the same time couldn’t get warm. I just wanted to climb into bed with a bunch of blankets, turn on Netflix, and feel sorry for myself.

You know who didn’t care? My son. You know who else didn’t care? The dishes or the laundry or the dog. My wife might have cared a little. The difference between being sick with and without an 11 month old to care for is night and day.

Childless all responsibilities yield to my whining pity party. The dishes can sit on the stove uncleared for at least a good 24 hours. I can probably get one more wear out of my dress shirt (I do wear undershorts). The dog is still the dog but my usual 20 minute walks can be as short at 3 minutes. Netflix binging is a must.

Having an 11 month thrilled to see Daddy and wanting to explore the world wipes all my poor me sick fun away. My wife, exhausted from a day with The Boy and with her own responsibilities, is more than ready for at least a 1 minute break. That turns The Boy over to me. Sickness and all.

Suddenly I find myself playing with him like I do the dog. Collapsed on the floor with him seated nearby. My one hand outstretched in his general direction (or where I think he is) flopping around with half hearted “wooo’s” escaping my sore throat. “Isn’t this fun?” I mutter with less conviction than a D list actor in an F grade movie.

Any other day I would be romping and rolling with him and chasing the dog around the house. Not today. Today my only goal is to make sure he doesn’t sustain an injury that will send us to the emergency room. I just find myself counting down the minutes to bedtime so I can feel good and sorry for myself.

There are no sick day pity party days when you’re a parent.

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3 Responses to “Baby Man”

  1. Cara Carpenter Says:

    Agreed. Feel better! I feel bad for my whole family when Im not feeling well, cause Im not as able to get things done and have the energy to build block towers.

  2. dadandfather Says:

    I completely understand your feelings here. I have a pinched nerve in my shoulder right now that is keeping me from easily doing pretty much anything, but my two toddlers need me to keep playing. It’s tough to find the right position that allows them to crawl all over daddy jungle gym without making me wince in pain.

  3. Charu Chhitwal Says:

    Ha ha ha god you put it on paper sorry blog like how nicely. I remember when I was growing up I never saw my mom down with fever or something like that ever. Only understood about her magical immunity post becoming a mother myself

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